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Mechanic
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Posted on Wednesday, April 01, 2015 - 04:49 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

The old saying "it's better to be safe than sorry" is as valid here as anywhere.
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Andyones2009
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Posted on Wednesday, April 01, 2015 - 12:24 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I can only talk from my own experience it far better to be safe the risk your health but not only yours but any other partners you might meet I have always had safe anal sex I am a bottom until one day a guy I meet while having sex with me removed the condom without telling me I had a terrible few months of worry not knowing if he had given me a STI think is your life worth more than the price of a condom if a guy does not want safe sex then I walk
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Posted on Sunday, May 12, 2013 - 12:38 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

As a young man of the eightees you just popped round to your " special " freinds house armed only with a bottle baby oil and a pot of vaseline just as his parents were towing their caravan down the street. Sort of innocent days two friends experimenting. Today I always use a condom when top and 99 percent of the time when I`m bottom.
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Posted on Saturday, April 27, 2013 - 11:01 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

You don't have to go to a sex shop. Go to any of the sites that encourage member's videos to be posted and you will see amateur movies indulging in bareback anal penetration. The majority with anal penetration show unsafe sex. Enjoyable but alarming. No wonder there is an increase in STIs.

(Message edited by rigger on April 27, 2013)
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Posted on Wednesday, November 23, 2011 - 10:02 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Try going to any gay sex shop and having a look along the shelves, Cockrobin or even better buy one of the videos from professional companies promoting 'Bareback Sex'. Go to any gay sauna that shows gay porn. Have a look on line at all the gay videos being streamed which actively promote bareback sex. I guarantee that you will eventually, sooner rather than later, see a cock without a condom penetrating an anal sphincter of a live male participant. Given the tens of thousands of porn films that must have been produced since HIV transmission was defined and legislation brought in to prevent anybody using a 'dangerous weapon' (ie body fluid) to infect another person, I hardly think that the film companies, be they from the land of the lawsuit (America) or this side of the pond, would be digitally removing the condom to protect themselves against lawsuits in every single one. Even if they were then they are open to a misrepresentation lawsuit by promoting bareback sex on the cover when in actual fact it is nothing of the sort!
Even if you disagree with me about bareback gay, anal penetrative sex, you state that 'the top always wears a condom.' Perhaps heterosexual porn guys might not class themselves as a 'top', but they are still doing the same function as a gay top. There are very few heterosexual porn movies where a guy wears a condom and you can catch HIV just as easily from sex with a woman as with a guy.
Finally, in answer to your question about the difference between anal sex and bareback sex. I give you my own homespun definition. In the gay world all bareback sex involves anal sex, but not all anal sex involves bareback sex.
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Cockrobin
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Posted on Monday, November 21, 2011 - 06:16 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Engjock,tell me the difference between "bareback sex" and "anal sex"(?) As far as I can see,there
ain't nothing to separate them. They're one
and the same....or maybe I'M missing something(?!)
In all gay porn movies,the "top" always wears
a comdom. This is a compulsory requirement.
The film company is protecting itself against
lawsuits if one of the actors should contract
a VD.
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Posted on Sunday, November 20, 2011 - 05:29 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

So, Cockrobin, 'In all gay porn movies, safe sex is mandatory.'
As far as I'm aware in all the promotion by the various health and advice agencies connected with the gay world, their definition of safe sex is to always use a condom in any kind of anal sex. Given this definiton, why are there so many gay porn titles actively promoting bareback sex? They don't seem that safe to me, but there again, I might be missing something...
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Cockrobin
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Posted on Friday, November 18, 2011 - 08:23 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I read the previous post in reply to mine.
Well,if you can't trust ANYONE,why bother to
have relationships ??!! You might as well
condemn the whole of Mankind as totally evil,treacherous and unreliable. A relationship is 1-2-1,a partnership . A relationship that is founded on mistrust is doomed from the outset
as is a purely physical one without the spiritual bond. Real sex is a union of minds as well as bodies.
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2 BB or NOT 2 BB
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Posted on Tuesday, November 15, 2011 - 10:02 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

reference BB sex. a poster has posted +++++ It should only be done unprotected,however,in long term stable +++++

NOT even that is SAFE. I know of a couple who had BB with each other but sadly one is now dead as he had been having BB with every one he came in contact with and his partner is now HIV + because of his late partners disgusting and disloyal behaviour. Moral is NEVER TRUST ANYONE
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Posted on Monday, November 14, 2011 - 02:35 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

To Condom
ALTHOUGH i only ever have safe anal sex.The reasons for not doing so.
1)the pleasure and feeling of a hot hard cock deep inside of you(without condom)
2)The pleasure from having a guy shooting his load deep in side of you.
3)The feeling of closeness is second to none.
4)Also the fact that you are being totally submissive.
These are some of the reasons given to me by someone i met whilst out cruising.
Thinking about it i can understand why he prefers his sex that way.

I suppose it is much the same,as when i am sucking a guy's cock.
Using a condom i would never get the taste of the cock,and how would i be able to swallow his cum?
Anyway i hope this sheds some light on the matter for you...

(Message edited by modm on November 14, 2011)
Do it until it hurts then do it some more.....
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Cockrobin
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Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2011 - 08:36 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Re Barebacking. This,like any other sexual
activity,is purely a matter of choice and mutual consent. It should only be done unprotected,however,in long term stable
partnerships. For casual sex,a condom is a absolute MUST. In all gay porn movies,safe sex is
mandatory.
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Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2011 - 08:43 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I have a mate who only wanted to BB and i refused still got to fuck him often but only ever safe,he now has HIV and his attitude was at least it gets it out the way glad i used a condom with him but sad he felt the way he did.
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Posted on Wednesday, October 12, 2011 - 07:27 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

any one who has unprotected sex with a stranger is an ass hole period end of story.
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Posted on Tuesday, October 11, 2011 - 05:12 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Re :- Bareback, yes I do sometimes, but its my choice if guys I meet want to play safe then I go along with that .
Every minute of the future, is a memory of the past. Life is Life : Laibach .

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Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 11:44 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I used to ask guys their 'status' and tell them mine, which is Negative.
Then I figured that people can say anything and I wouldn't know if they were telling lies - and some people state categorically that they only have safe sex then, in the cubicle or the bedroom, suggest unprotected sex! Sometimes they say that it's 'cos I'm special - yeah, right!

I think it is totally my responsibility to look after my own health and no offer, no amount of beauty or charm will get me to bb.

I don't condemn those who choose to risk infection, but neither do I fuck with them because it's a stupid and dangerous choice..

I go well and want to continue to do so.
And I hope you go well also.
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Posted on Wednesday, March 23, 2011 - 10:16 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

As barebacking is considered by many to be an added H.I.V. risk a copy below of a message I have also posted in the H.I.V.page.

A report issued today - 23 March 2011 - indicates that HIV rates have doubles in Britain in the last decade.
Many of these new cases are among men who have sex with men and it is this group that campaigners hope to target.

See the BBC article at:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-12817564
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Posted on Monday, March 15, 2010 - 11:47 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Can't believe the question is even being asked!!!!
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TO Condom i think that they are called HIV chasers.
Do it until it hurts then do it some more.....
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If i was living in a ideal world,then it would be bare back EVERY time.But it is not a ideal world so safe sex EVERY time.
Do it until it hurts then do it some more.....
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Posted on Sunday, February 14, 2010 - 04:28 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Totally agree, but even when someone says that he never does anything without protection it can still be a lie; you only have to look at the profiles on Gaydar to see that. The profile says 'Safe Sex: Always', but there are several pictures/videos of them being screwed b/b. Of course, that is assuming it is the person...!
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Posted on Thursday, January 21, 2010 - 08:38 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I have no idea when it comes to Anal why any idiot would do bareback witrh anyone other then a long term parter who you were sure of.
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Posted on Wednesday, January 20, 2010 - 08:25 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Surprised no thoughts on this.
My own preference is protection - not Russian routlette!
Not sure what motivates those who want to take the risk - can someone tell us?

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