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Kcjones
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Posted on Tuesday, December 01, 2015 - 04:52 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

there are plenty of spycam cottage vids just put spycam gay free toilets into google i have found liverpool street on line before and richmond riverside so thet do the rounds lols i must be on a few ha ha
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Posted on Sunday, November 29, 2015 - 01:07 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

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Posted on Saturday, November 28, 2015 - 12:53 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

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surrey shock can you tell me how to find spy cam sites you mention. i new to this, thank you
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i always have a perv at spycam porn on the net i was amazed to see a local cottage being filmed via spycam and reconised a few local married lads being sucked and sucking so must be a spy camera in a pen or watch ? so take care guys if you dont eant to be net porno star! we are talking surrey kingston
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Posted on Thursday, October 11, 2012 - 09:09 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

So, I went to the Basement Sauna in Leeds this afternoon. It was not very busy, but that was OK.
I met a pleasant young Malaysian with a cuddly body and a willing arse and throat and it felt very good to fuck hinm in various positions.
There was also a very attractive asian guy who I found VERY appealing. We went to cabin, I knelt down and took his cock in my mouth; he stood there like a statue.
He then knelt down and reached out for my cock, which was rock solid. He asked me what I liked, I replied, then asked him, to which he replied, "It depends!"

Eventually, after nothing of note from him, no fore play, no nipple tweaking, nothing whatsoever that suggested there would be some mutuality, he said, "Fuck me!" and assumed the position, but I had lost interest by then. So I said, "I'm not in the mood," and we went our seperate ways.
Go well
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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2011 - 10:52 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Cruising will never be dead but in this day and age bring them home we are out we are gay and proud!
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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2011 - 08:56 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Just looked at the first post showing on this thread where a guest with nick of woody stated " cruising is dead, there is no where left because guys got too greedy and sloppy about being discreet "

I agree with him, some ares I visit in Suffolk when up there, the regulars call some cruisers ' visitors as they zoom into country parks etc, whizz round the car park and out in a flash if nothing interests them ' years back successful cruising was almost an art, knowing when to make a move, learning patience etc, showing consideration to others be they fellow cruisers or just other users of the various facilities.

Back in the mid to late 60's and 70's my area being without transport ( other than cycle /tube ) stretched from Rainham Essex Ilford, Barking and up as far as Mile end and out to Romford and the docks around Canning town and various loo's parks etc between.
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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2011 - 02:19 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Guys - there are some more nostalgic postings within the Stories Section in a thread called
"Those were the days. Stories from the past"

Link: http://boards.gaybod.com/discus/messages/689/96838.html?1324516465
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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2011 - 01:48 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Hi there mikmal6 just been reading your posting and it brought back memories of many happy days. In the late 1960 and through the 1970;s my partner and I lived near Brentwood in Essex and there were some wonderful cottages around the area and we used to go down to Southend/Westcliff and Chalkwell Park where again a wonderful selection of cottages and GH's. Recall one Sunday afternoon at Chalkwell there were 8 cubicles and all had thin walls (like 2 pieces of this tin with compressed cardboard in them) which you could cut through with a Stanley knife. One Sunday my partner went in cubicle and was in there for over 30 minutes and when he came out he was followed by a BEAUTIFUL young guy who went to his car out on the road and the wife/girlfriend went ballistic as he had been gone for almost an hour. Oh happy days. Someone should really collect all these stories and cottages details together and make a book before all we older guys are gone and there will be nobody who knows or experienced the fun days.
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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2011 - 12:37 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I know it's been a LONG time since the last post on this topic, but I've just read through the whole thread, and it made me feel quite nostaligic for the good old days of cruising and the glory days of cottaging.
And not just in the UK. I cruised and cottaged on every continent except one, and my cruising must have been the equivalent of many marathons!

Along with the countryside and cottages, many pleasant and long lasting aquaintances have fallen by the wayside (or laybys) because the quasi-relationship existed in a specific location.

A very dear friend of mine, Ron Cox (used to live in Fulham and, in his latter years, Brentford Dock).

We had some great times in many of the cottages that adorned London and most of the suburbs, but we often drove further afield and combined a pub lunch with a trawl of country cottages.

Ah, me, the bitter sweetness of nostalging the good old days when we were so young and it never rained in Southern California!
Be well, Go well
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Posted on Wednesday, July 07, 2010 - 06:50 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I don't think cruising is really out of fashion but it probably has changed.

I love cruising in the open air - I don't really like saunas as seeing loads of guys in towels or naked doesn't really turn me on. What does turn me on is seeing guys getting off with each other and pulling their trousers and pants down to get sucked or rimmed or bending over to take it up the arse in the open air with their shirts up over their backs and their pants at their ankles.

I love to cruise up Hampstead Heath and have had some fantastic times up there recently. Also would also recommend the Stadtpark in Hamburg where I go cruising when I am at home visiting friends and family.
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Posted on Tuesday, July 06, 2010 - 08:41 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Cruising not out of fashion - just seems to be the realm of a much wider group of people.
Characters you would be unlikely to see many years ago now appear - particularly in the Countryside. Probably there is now less risk of prosecution, certainly the population is extremely mobile and dozens spurred on by the information they get from the Internet.
If cruising does go out of fashion it might just be the Internet which starts it off as it seems to be coming a place where too much information is being circulated and excess publicity increases the risk of surveillance and prosecution.
I would rather see a message which says something like 'Layby XYZ is a good place to visit' rather than dozens and dozens of full blown messages about Layby XYZ detailing ones successes or failures or, as in the case of some laybys on a certain other International Gay Website packed full of personal abusive messages from frustrated individuals who can't have anything themselves and don't want anyone else to have anything!!
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Posted on Friday, February 05, 2010 - 11:16 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

From what I have observed in Nottinghamshire most of the dogging seems to take place at dusk and after dak. A number of the Forestry Commision car parks which 10 years ago were exclusively gay now seem to have been taken over by doggers and very little gay cruising now happens there.
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Has cruising been overtaken by Dogging?.

In Oxfordshire many areas have become dusk or night time only.

The 'Cottages' are being closed down (by council-, budget cuts), their excuse too much litter and inappropriate behaviour. (be discreet, and take rubbish home, want to save the few remaining..

The glory holes have long gone, plated over with steel panels.
Colbart is Col, loves women and men.
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Hi Mechanic I agree. Just posted a story in real lives about str8 bar pickups. happened 2 years ago.
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As BJMan says, and as I said earlier on this page, things have changed but one thing I find is still very similar is 'cruising' in straight pubs.
I visit places over a large part of the Country and try to stay in B&B's near to busy pubs - especially if they are near Industrial Estates etc. where there are other drinkers who like me are not 'locals'. It is often the case that lorries park up for the night and workers on Industrial Estates are with firms for a short time visit on maintenance and things and are also staying in B&B's.
More than a few 'chance' conversations with strangers in a 'straight' pub has led to something exciting - once or twice staying in the same Lodgings and a few times going with a keyholder back to a Unit on an Industrial Estate and more than a few times back to a lorry cab.
It's also a more challenging way of cruising - sitting out in a known 'cruisy' layby or visiting a Gay pub might prove successful but no where near as satisfying in my book.
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Posted on Sunday, January 31, 2010 - 02:05 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I dont think cruising is out of fashion, it has just changed a lot over the years. People now have more cars to travel around, so they travel further than what they used to. Also a number of toilets are no longer in use, I know when I was younger they were in abundance, and you could generally find at least one locally where action was going on. The use of cameras everywhere too deters a lot of people, and they have killed the fun that used to happen on the trains and buses. I think a lot more people cruise outside in the warmer months, during the cold and winter time they cruise via the internet, though what you sometimes see on screen is not always what turns up at your door. Personally I love cruising, the thrill of the chase is half the fun, as is the expectations and hope of getting someone, not that it makes up though for the times you go out and find no one around.
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Posted on Saturday, January 30, 2010 - 05:21 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

It's not what it used to be but still happens here in Bangor, wales. Stopped by on my way to work last night and had a nice cock in my mouth within 5 minutes which I sucked until he filled my mouth with his cum. It wasn't one of those pulsing cocks it sort of oozed out, the only warning I had was his cock getting harder in my mouth but he came for ages and fed me a huge load. Went to work with a huge smile on my face and a bellyful of cum.
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Posted on Wednesday, January 27, 2010 - 07:36 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

its still going strong here though a bit hit and miss wether you get any action some times ive got 2 places i go to and had my 1st experience of being fucked at one of them
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Posted on Sunday, November 29, 2009 - 03:28 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

To woody,Cruising is far from dead where i live.In fact it is a thriving community whith in itself.
But maybe that is the advantage of not living in a big city/town.Guess what? we even have grass(no not weed/blow).
In fact a 20 min drive(or less) from my location and i know of no less than five very good cruising sites.
Guess who has a spunky mouth most weekends?
Do it until it hurts then do it some more.....
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it's still goes on, and i quite enjoy meeting guys when i'm out. But what does piss me off is when guys sit there for hours on end or harrass a guy when he says no. Also it doesn't cost anything to pick up your rubbish and take it home with you or dispose of it in a bin rather than leave it full view for everyone to see.
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I wouldn't say Cruising was 'dead' or 'out of fashion', far from it, but has certainly changed over the years.
With a much more mobile population, with Motorways and fast Trunk Roads people go further looking for sex. In the past cruising areas and toilets were usually visited by 'locals' and they knew each other, knew who they liked and who they disliked and everyone had their own rung on the local cruising ladder. Today any cruising area or toilet is likely to be visited by people from some distance away, by people who do not know each other and so are more cautious and therefore probably take longer to get involved or may not get involved at all.
Add to this the fact that pre-internet Cruising areas were probably only know to 'locals' and therefore Cruising was a sort of 'Club' atmosphere, now, with the Internet the 'Club atmosphere' has gone and been replaced by something less friendly.
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cruising is dead, there is no where left because guys got too greedy and sloppy about being discreet. Holloway Road, Tottenham High St, Marble Arch are all useless now. I had all my "first times" in those places. Its easier to just go to a sauna, there are so many married/straight guys in there if that's what you like, me I love those cute oriental guys ;-)

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