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Rigger
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Posted on Saturday, May 02, 2015 - 10:50 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Some reading about Gay Blackmail at
https://gactupdate.wordpress.com/notes/blackmail02/

Advice would be best obtained from a Solicitor with experience of such matters.
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Hi guys in need some advise on what to do.

Last month I was feeling horny and after looking around a younger guy contacted me offering sex for money, I thought why not we met up and had really good sex. He told me some sob story and I felt sorry for him, he said that he's been looking for work and cant get a job, and lives in a damp room in a house share etc etc.

Anyway I agreed to help him get a flat as I thought it would help him out, and didn't want anything in return. I like to help people out, I helped a homeless guy sort himself out and always give to the food banks.

Now its all changed he's blackmailing me for cash, he's found out where I live and over the past month I've given him 2k.

I've kept all the txts (threatening me) that he's sent me but I'm afraid to go to the police (as I know I should) as my brother-in-law works for the CPS and I don't want him finding out. Also my brother has friends that are in the police in the same town as me ...

What should I do?????????????
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Hornymike
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Posted on Saturday, November 22, 2014 - 11:56 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Nice of you to want to help worried who was not a member and posted his message in August of 08. Think it might be to late!
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Rigger
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Posted on Saturday, May 10, 2014 - 04:54 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

To any Guys who may be able to help "Can_you_assist_me" locally -
From the information he has given me I would believe that the problem he has relates to insufficient working memory (RAM) so guidance locally to Shops where this could be checked and/or additional memory installed would be a start and also possible check to see if there are processes running on his PC which are not required.
His mail contact details are in his messages.

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can you assist me ??? Follow up
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Rigger has been most helpful and I am most appreciative. However if there is a guy who is in the mid suffolk area (stowmarket or nearby) who would visit and assist me I would be most pleased. Thanks in advance
wegiveandtakeit@aol.com
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Rigger
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Posted on Friday, May 09, 2014 - 10:36 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I have forwarded some information to "Can_you_assist_me?" which I hope will be useful to him but I'm sure he would appreciate any additional thoughts others may have.
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can yuo assist me???
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I wonder if a message here will get me the assistance I require. I am almost 80 years of age and NOT computer literate.
I have a computer problem and need a gay or gay friendly guy to sort it for me. I live in rural village in suffolk (near stowmarket) In advance of hopefully a reply I will say THANK YOU
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I'm bi and married. I have fought my bi urges for a while but due to various reasons that I won't go into have decided it's time to find a guy. I want to stay married and not looking to sleep with strangers - the risk of exposure and loosing my family or catching something which I could pass on to my wife (if we actually have sex!!!) seems to big. Ideally I would like to find another married guy looking for the same as me - someone who has a lot to loose so values discretion and someone whose cum I can drain dry knowing they aren't putting it about!! I've been on the usual contact sites (cottaging etc) but although not short of fuck offers can't find what I am looking for - am i looking in the wrong place, can anyone recommend a better way to find a partner? conwyguy@live.co.uk
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Tweedie
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Posted on Thursday, July 02, 2009 - 11:23 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Hi Guys, Anyone out there that knows about computers. I think Ive got some viruses and now I can't seem to burn on to dvds. I been dowloading porn and maybe thats where the problem lies. I live in the Havant area and would like it if someone would come round and help clear this mess up.need to speak openly with a gay guy
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Essexseaside
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Posted on Wednesday, December 31, 2008 - 04:52 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Hi Ted......check your post as I've sent some suggestions.
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Posted on Monday, December 29, 2008 - 08:26 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

TED-Have you tried 'Caffmos'( on the net).It has contact groups (Holidays etc.) within the main site and caters for older men and their admirers,I find it a very good site and have made a few friends there.Hope this helps you..R..
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Ted_gay
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Posted on Monday, December 29, 2008 - 04:15 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Where can I find some gay social groups where I can meet gay guys with shared interests or something in common? I'll try Gay Switchboard to see if they can point me in the right direction.

I've looked on the Net, but can find no social groups which interest me. I don't share the interests of most gay men.

I feel I need to join some new groups perhaps age related. I'm tired of the backroom club scene, which no longer really works for me. I'm scared of being alone as I get older.

What I'm looking for is new friends and perhaps companionship, and wonder where to look for gay social groups. For instance there used to be a gay board games group - doesn't seem to exist any more. Evergreens was for older men - can't find any trace of it anymore. Perhaps a cinema or theater going group, or one into my kind of music - 1950s style rock'n'roll/rockabilly, traditional Country and other Roots music. I once started a group for gay men who'd lost their partners (because they'd died). I lost my life-partner in 1991, and been on my own ever since. Is there anything like a gay singles or windowers group for men of my age I wonder?

Any ideas?

(Message edited by Ted_Gay on December 29, 2008)
Ted Gay, Rocker
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Hi Guy's, Got a bit of a bad 1 here .....just worried what the f**k is wrong with me ..whenever am with a guy i struggle to get a hard on this is so embarrasing...i am 100% gay and i have no trouble on my own....it's like everything switches off on me any advice?
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Looking for some help lads. I'm a married lad that has just met another straight married lad. This guy has just split from his wife and is rampant. He is wanting to fuck me, but i have never done this before, i have only every had oral given to me by another lad. Looking for the advice on how to clean myself properly before hand, not wanting any brown stuff to spoil the fun. What is advisable and is there a way to ensure that the tunnel is clear before the traffic enter so to speak. mail me with advice on gac1967@hotmail.co.uk
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Hi Mechanic, thanks for your advice. Since my posting, my sore throat has developed into a cold, so, on this ocassion it may have just been a coincidence, that I got a sore throat after giving oral.

I have spoken to a friend who also experiences sore throats after oral sex and I'll pass your advice about gargling with Oraldene on to him too.

Cheers again for your help. deapfroatxx
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I've noticed that when I give oral sex to a guy (involving deep throating and swallowing cum), I develop an acute sore throat the following day, what could the possible reasons for this be? The sore throat seems to be first noticeable about 24 hours after gving oral sex and will usaully clear within a day or so.

Any advice would be appreciated.
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Lincoln_pimp
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Posted on Thursday, December 07, 2006 - 10:19 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

You need to ask DC ? or are you just wanting some reassurance....

Go to a G.U.M Clinic, the checks don't hurt honestly (well they didn't me anyway) and you can remain annoymous. The damage that can be done if you allow something to go untreated is significantly worse and more embarrassing.

Go on, you know you need to.

Good Luck
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I slept with a complete stranger about 2 months ago and it was amazing, but recently ive noticed that after i piss my cock smells a bit fishy and there's a yellow stain in my pants. I'm too shy to go to the doctor, but i'm worried i've caught something. Help!
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Posted on Saturday, September 16, 2006 - 06:58 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

My understanding is that the risk of contracting HIV or Hepatitis through what you have done is minimal and even if you had open cuts or sores in your mouth the risk is low.

You have a greater risk of contracting Chlamydia or Gonerea both of which are baterial infections that can live in and be transmitted via the throat and nose. The good news is that it is very easily treated if caught early - some antibiotics and the jobs done.

So, if you are worried go to your local G.U.M Clinic and get tested. It's not painful, it's not that embarassing really and you can do it totally annonymously.

Hope all is well, take care.
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I had sex wiv this guy three days ago. I was sucking his cock loads and for ages, but when he actually came, he wanked over my arse. Now, should I go 4 a blood test? I mean, could I have caught something, coz he didn’t wear a condom while I was sucking him? Or is it only if he came in my mouth that I would’ve caught something?
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Posted on Saturday, August 26, 2006 - 12:57 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

To Culterman:-

How to Measure Your Penis

Many men would like to know how long or how fat their cock is, but few know how to take proper measurements. Using the methods described below you can finally get a medically-accurate measurement of your penis size:

Finding your penis length

Penis length is defined as the linear distance along the dorsal side of the erect penis extending from the mons veneris to the tip of the glans. In terms you and I would understand, this means the penis length is measured in a straight line on the top side of the erect penis, from the skin of your belly to the tip of your penis. Penis circumference is defined as the linear distance around the widest, thickest, part of the erect penis (see below).

1. Stimulate yourself using your method of choice until your cock is hard as a rock.
2. Place your ruler on the skin of your belly, at the base of your erect penis. Do not press in against your belly, why cheat yourself?
3. Press the ruler against your penis and read the nearest quarter-inch measurement at the tip of your penis.
4. Record this number, and keep this paper in a safe place.
5. Repeat this measurement two more times, and record the results along with your first measurement, preferably with different erections and preferably on different days. Why? Because your erections can vary slightly depending on your level or arousal, time of day, room temperature, and even how long since your last sexual experience.

Finding your penis circumference

Penis length is not the only factor in determining penis size. The width, girth, or fatness, of a penis is also an important aspect when considering how you compare. Most people have a penis that is either longer and thinner, or shorter and fatter. Use the instructions below to determine your penile circumference (distance around the widest part of your penis).

1. Stimulate yourself using your method of choice until your cock is hard as a rock.
2. Place a fabric ruler or a string end at the widest part of your penis and wrap it carefully around one time. Mark the spot where the string first touches itself.
3. If using string, take the marked string and lay it against the ruler. Read to the nearest quarter-inch measurement.
4. Record this number on your paper.
5. Repeat this measurement two more times, preferably with different erections and preferably on different days, recording the measurements each time.

Calculate your size

Average the 3 numbers you recorded for your penis length. If you don't know how to take an average, just add up the 3 numbers, and divide the total by 3. This is your average penis length.

Then, do the same for your penis circumference. Now you know just how big you are!

Wondering just how you compare with others? The average erect penis length is about 6 inches, but this can vary depending on what data or medical studies you are consulting.
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Culterman
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Posted on Friday, August 25, 2006 - 01:47 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

How do you measure your dick ? Where do you measure it from and to >
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I desepately wanna have a bit of fun with a mates brother whose straight thou a bit short of cash! All i wanna do is such his cock and taste his hot str8 cum - i am now so hot for this guy what should i do? its sems to be taking over my life and everytime i see him the urge gets stronger
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to Fit Ton:

Dont know if this is a signal that cab drivers use, but I know that it is one in use by lorry/truck drivers. If you find out, please do another posting and let us know, happy hunting, and take care.
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Posted on Thursday, March 30, 2006 - 11:33 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

If you're in a taxi during the day and the driver flashes the passenger lights on and off a couple of times, is it some kind of signal?
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Hey Guyz.....'Jelqing' or 'Jelquing' - Has anyone used this exercise for cock enlargement? I've never heard of it before but have just come across it on a website and wondered if anyone could comment on its use?
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Londonskin thanks i will try that with a lad i know who loves to take his time and i trust 100%
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Jeepboy. Try this with a lad who is not ultra big and who you trust and who has some patience.

Lie on a bed on your back with your neck just on the end of the bed. Let your head drop down over the end of the bed so that your throat is as open as you can get it. Open your mouth and get the lad to slowly push his cock in until you can just feel it touching the back of your mouth. Try to keep relaxed - breath through your nose. Then get him to push slightly and get his cock going down into your throat. If you start gagging get his cock out - relax - try it again.

Keep practicing it.

You will soon learn how to take it all the way down.
Horny skinhead lad
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Posted on Friday, March 10, 2006 - 03:42 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Any advice would be appreciated when i have some guys cocks in my mouth i can not take them all the way as i start choking.
Have any of you guys had this problem and managed to overcum it.
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To repeat our request for help and advice posted elsewhere this week on Gaybod:- My b/f and myself live apart and both of us have family commitments so we cant use our respective places for privacy, we are only free during the day (9am-5pm)and most Hotels, Travel Lodges etc only let rooms out from 2pm - which doesnt give us a lot of time for relaxation and intimacy when travelling is taken into consideration.

Are there any Gay managed Hotels. Guesthouses etc who let rooms out earlier in the day than 2pm? We are both desperate for some privacy and are not into car or outside sex - what we are desperatly looking for is the security of a nice affordable clean and cosy room to enjoy a few hours privacy.

We both live in the North West - so somewhere near Manchester - Warrington - Liverpool would be great.

There are so many couple both gay and straight who desperatly require daytime accommodation for a few hours privacy - there is certainly a gap in the market for this kind of facility.

Any other guys in this postion??? Any advice would be greatfully received.

Cheers to All Gaybod Users. - H+R.
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Posted on Sunday, January 15, 2006 - 12:55 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

On your Balls !!!! I used Veet on my shoulders to remove a little hair I didn't want and I ended up in hospital with chemical burns. I followed the instructions only leaving it on for 8 minutes and showered it all off immediately afterwards. The burns removed the skin and left me wearing a 'vest' of bandages for two weeks whilst applying creams twice daily......and no, I will not be using it again - ANYWHERE !
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Posted on Saturday, January 14, 2006 - 02:41 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

veet is dangerous 2 use on the balls,i know, i'v tried it! i thought my sac would disintegrate,the skins'too thin 4 veet...it says that on the tin..
'do not use in private regions'
i thought u all'd like 2 know !
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Hi SmoothBelow, thanks for your advice - I did try Veet Sensitive - Once! Never Again!!! agggggghhh! OMG Great Balls O' Fire!!! excrutiating pain!!!! I must have extra sensitive skin so just a warning to anyone who is thinking of trying Veet, be careful.

I would prefer to be totally smooth, but have accepted the compromise of a close trim.

Cheers - Smoofie (aka Closetrim)!
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Posted on Thursday, January 12, 2006 - 09:29 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

To smoofie - I find Immac (or Veet as it's now called) works wonders - just trim your pubes then spread it on, leave for 10 minutes and use the plastic scraper to scrape the hair off. Gives a very smooth finish, no pain whatsoever and very quick and easy to use. Hope this helps.
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Bi_shyguy2
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I've just bought some liquid gold 'room odouriser' and now I've got it I'm not quite sure how or IF to use it.
The warnings on the label are dire to say the least.

When do you take it, how much is required, how often etc. etc?

I had a quick sniff of the inside of the cap and all it seemed to do was to cause my heart rate to increase ........any advice would be welcome.
Thanks :-)
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Hi guys can anyone recommend a web cam that is easy to setup? and not too costly, also im not good with computors
cheers
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To Johneastend - Thanks for your advice. I'll let u know how I get on. Cheerz - Smoofiexx
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Posted on Tuesday, September 06, 2005 - 06:43 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

To smoofie,
I would go for the wet shave method mate, as I find the electric razor, although probably safer, tends to pull the hairs out. Whatever method you choose, always remember to use plenty of moisturising cream afterwards, this takes away the soreness, though might sting a bit at first. Let me know if this helped you at all.
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Posted on Sunday, September 04, 2005 - 09:33 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

I would love to have a totally smooth shaved cock and balls - which is the easiest method to use to achieve this - wet shave or electric shaver? Which technique should I use to get the best result. I have tried in the past and have always finished up with very sore skin. Any advice would be appreciated.
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Posted on Saturday, August 20, 2005 - 04:46 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Dear "seekin help"
I also lacked confidence when I was your age. Partly my slighty under 6" cock, also being inexperienced, not knowing anyone gay, the percieved seediness of cottaging and at that time not being happy with my gay desires. In the end it was lust that led me to take my first steps. I knew what I craved (I REALLY wanted to suck a cock).
You've taken a step by going somewhere where you can get action. If you are sure just a bit of fun and experience is what you are after (if not, try Gaydar type sites or gay pubs to talk, relax, relate to gay people and maybe meet someone you like) then just think of why you're there. Cock size doesn't matter much to most of us, most of the time. Eg. Most guys would love to suck of a 20 yr old lad! If neccessary take small steps, like next time your there let someone touch you, or you touch them. Be direct, either say what you want or tell them your not sure as you're a bit nervous. It is ok to leave whenever you want, but I think once you've had a little feel/ taste you'll probably stick around and go furthur.
Feel free to contact me. Be careful, be safe.
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for "seekin'help" = first of all, size does not matter! Some say it does but lets face it: if you are 10 inches and 5 in circumference its going to hurt like hell to be rammed but a 6" will do the same without the pain; the main thing is to get it hard and cum; not be the biggest dick on the planet. Some guys think the length is the all and end all of sex. They are too vain!
Trying to go with a guy for the first time: ideally you want to be treated very slow and carefully. Let the guy caress your chest and kiss your neck and make you feel good! Let the guy gradually go down to your dick and play and slowly get it out and let him suck you and when you feel good, then let you make your own moves. Slowly you will get more confidence but, often the other guy won't know what you have done before and so this is the hurdle to get over. Find someone who would be willing to show and teach; who is willing not to rush you and to make sure you're not hurt either physically or mentally. Get that done and you're home free. I guess the other part to cover is what age groups are you looking for? The younger guy of your age is likely to not have enough experience as above: someone around 30 to 45 I guess is a good start and after that you can pick an age but at least you will be experienced and have the confidence to deal with it all. You can email me if you want more info: strong_corn@yahoo.co.uk
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hi guys..need a bit of advice from u....reading the posts i see you are quite sound about givin advice...anyway to my problem>>>....

well i am a 20 yr old guy never been with another guy before but i am totally gay...women do nothing for me at all.
i go to my local toilets in town now because i have found out that there is a hole in the cubicle wall...(just a small 1) and i have sussed it out that if you stay long enough (this is old news to you guys) then u will have some guy(s)wankin for u...but my problem is i cant have sex with the guys its like full on in the toilet but when the door(s)open the guy is giving me the come on to go away with him but i freaK OUT...i want to go and have sex but i freeeze and disapear but still horny as fuck and end up going home for a wank instead....WHY?...i am not the most well endowned guy on the planet ...i know this does play a part....i just want to have a proper sexual experience with another guy but want to feel relaxed.....i guess my heads just a bit mixed up ....but if anyone can give any advice or help ....thanks so much in advance x
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Posted on Thursday, July 14, 2005 - 11:21 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Thank you all for the information and advice.

The guy's foreskin seems to slide back no problem. I don't know if he has any back pain, but last time he did request to lie face up on the ceramic floor, so maybe his back does bother him. (I don't really know much about this guy - not even his name. He comes over and I suck his cock. No exchange of information).

I'm disappointed he can't feed me his load, though.
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Posted on Wednesday, July 13, 2005 - 09:23 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

FAO. GayHedonist
This might just put your mind at ease. I suffer with back problems, i have had 2 major ops on my spine, and some nerves have been damaged and trapped. Sometimes when my b/f sucks me off to completion, as I cum, so the nerves in my spine tense, and this causes me to be very sensative, and an automatic reaction is to pull away quite sharply. does your friend suffer with his back at all? if so, this could be your answer. As to the rest of you lucky people giving gayhedonist advice, think yourselves lucky that you can manage this pleasure, as some of us can't.
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to GayHedonist

I agree wiyh "Express", there is nothing better than having a guy suck you off and you cum in his mouth. I am uncut as well, and have no problems cumming in or out of a guys mouth. Perhaps your friend prefers to cum on his stomach and likes to watch you eat his cum from it.
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GayHedonist...hiya, Im uncut and have no problems with being sucked and its great if a guy sucks completely, its a great feeling, not too sensative for me. problem might be if he cannot roll forskin right back and that might be painful and cause hygiene problems.
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I'm looking for some advice about uncut guys. I'm cut so I'm not very familiar with the whole foreskin thing. There is this guy that I am sucking off every so often, and he is uncut. My favourite part of giving a blow job is when the guy cums - I love to have a guy shoot in my mouth. However, when this guy is about to blow he has to pull his cock away as he says the head of his dick is too sensitive due to his being uncircumsized. Is this normal for uncut guys? Do they have to stop at the point of orgasm? I'd really love to actually have this guy shoot in my mouth, rather than just lick his cum up off of his stomach. Thanks for any tips or advice.
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FAO Nikmisr
re treatment of crabs ............ they attach themselves to the base of your pubic hair NOT to the skin so if you have body hair you must apply to all surrounding areas. I was unfortunate to catch them a few years ago & doc told me to apply the lotion from chest to knees - just to make sure. All it takes is one missed area & they will spread again!! Without sounding crude .... remember to apply to the crack of your ass too. Good luck
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As I recall (from - er - what "a friend told me" :-) the first application kills the beasties and any eggs. You use it once again a week later to be sure. Bad news is the shampoo smells a bit funny. The good news is your wife shouldn't recognise the smell :-) However I'd recomend you go for the lotion in your case then, its just an alcohol based liquid. I'd also recommend you wash any bedding and underwear in a hot wash to kill any eggs. Er, I mean, my friend recommends...
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Posted on Sunday, July 03, 2005 - 12:46 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

How long does it take to clear up worried guy
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Posted on Sunday, July 03, 2005 - 12:39 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only) Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

thks HTH & MJM
got to use with out wife knowing
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Go to a chemist with a pharmacy and say "Prioderm please". Take it home and read the instructions. Easy ! (As Mjm said, it's the same treatment for head lice anyway so no need for embarrasment).

Of course, if they aren't crawling sideways, you might have lobsters instead of crabs :-)
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go to the chemist and get headlice mousse
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help urgent ive got crabs
what do i need to get rid of them?

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